Thursday, January 31, 2013

He's a Savant... and he's done it again!

Bear w/ 33" Northern
East Rush Lake 1/30/13
Age 6
1st Walleye
Snake River
Age 2
His brother and sister were swimming... he wanted another bass.


Showing Poppa Tom how it's done.
Crosslake Crappie 2010
Age 3
Lake of the Woods Walleye
ICED 2011


26" Walleye July 2011
"all by myself"
Is that a Marlin?

"I got this one....ohh baby."

LOTW Sauger -Like a Pro
-28 degrees Feb. 2012

 Smallies on the Snake
This is my world.





Say what you will... this kid loves to fish.....he's patient....he's studious and and he's good at it too....
They don't have to be big ones to get this kid's attention. He loves the challenge.
          His grandfather says, "If you catch Big Fish, you have earned the right to tell tall tales!"
                                                            Logan catches BIG FISH.

The hugs that I've gotten from my son immediately after he's landed (and most often times released) these fish is worth more to me than all of the money in the World. I'm so proud of him. Doctor's have proven though that it's a genetic mutation found in some Kirby Kids... X-rays have shown.....
                                                                         He was born for this.

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

SCORE!!!

Do you remember way back when I was blogging about how my kids were in hockey and it was fun and I enjoyed watching them play but I WAS not a hockey fan?

Fast forward a year later.....

The kids had their outdoor jamboree this past weekend. Yes, I said OUTDOOR.  Which means that their games were held outside and as a parent cheering their child that meant I was outside as well.  I have a strong dislike for cold and winter.

Emma is playing on an all girls team this year. They have special jerseys and pink hats and love screaming, "lady dragons."  She's one of the older girls on the team but it's only her 2nd year of skating still.

Logan is on his second year as well and playing on the Mite D black team. He's still short but he's a year smarter and is probably the best skater on his team. (not that I'm bragging...but I am) He can pretty much score at will during his games, in fact, he scored 4 times in a matter of one shift I think.

Emma, however, is a little different story this year. Her team is in the predicament in which they are playing older skaters who have been skating a year or two or more  than the girls on the lady dragon team.  Scoring isn't as plentiful for the team so far but they sure are improving and that's what you want to see as a parent.

Emma tends to be more 'defensive' minded when she is skating. She LOVED playing goalie in her last game, owning the net and blocking anyone that dared try to put the puck in her net. She enjoys hanging back on defense and helping the goalie out and challenging anyone who brings the puck on her end of the rink.

This weekend however, I gently reminded her that she could look to score a little bit more and work on that part of the game.  She hasn't scored yet this year and took my suggestion to heart. 

However that darn pipe got in her way!!!!  Emma had 4 good looks at the net on Saturday and each shot went 'clang' right off the right pipe.  She was so close and after the 4th time even she shook her head in dismay of coming that close that many times.

Sunday brought the last game of the jamboree and once again, Emma was focused on helping out on defense but we gradually saw her creep closer and closer to the opponents net looking to score. 

Then it happened....Emma was on the right wing and was looking to center the puck and her centering pass snuck right in-pass the goalie.

All I remember doing is throwing both my hands straight up in the air and shouting out something that is not part of the English language. The other hockey Mom's beside me were cheering and clapping as well. I remember looking at Emma with her stick in the air  as she was skating back to her position for the face off with a big mouth guard grin under her facemask.

And here's the sappy Mom part............I seriously had tears in my eyes.

It was a moment of pure joy and celebration.

I am a hockey fan now.

(Sorry for the lack of pictures. Blogger is working on a bug to fix this)

Thursday, January 3, 2013


                                                   The House That Joe Built

The sign out front reads “Sale Pending”. It’s a day we all knew and feared would eventually come.

A while back our snowbirds put their house up for sale as each year their time in Florida became more and more precious. 501 Riverview sat mostly unfilled for the next few years, partly because of the down turn in the housing market that came at about the same time as Grandpa’s retirement from Security State Bank. Those of us that grew to love the ranch on the river knew that the market would only stave off the inevitable for so long. Eventually we would have to let go and turn the page to a new chapter in our family’s lives. So it appears, that new chapter starts now. They’re moving out in March.

Saying goodbye to the House That Joe Built was hard for me.

* It’s the place where I mowed the lawn for seasons on end in exchange for fifteen dollars and all the lemonade a grandson could wish for.
* It’s the place where I filleted walleyes at the end of the dock amongst the mosquitoes I knew on a first name basis.
* Grandma’s was where I reported on consequence after being charged with grand theft auto for “borrowing” my stepmother’s Camaro to “whip” the mean streets of Warroad.
* Joe’s was where I rented the Honda 3 wheeler but never made good on my tab. Don’t ever remember changing the oil or paying for gas but I do remember wheelies for days!
* 501 Riverview is the most dependable place I know on Earth for a warm meal and warmer hugs.
* Birthday pictures from the deck or Prom pictures in front of the fireplace – a lot of life’s milestones took place on that side of the railroad tracks.
* For as long as I can remember, the basketball hoop there comes with one simple instruction – Insert Ball HERE. >
* In all of those years I have never showered on the first floor – always in the basement. And each time, it reminded me of Duke and Greg and the smell of a Mink Ranch.
* Great Grandma Fox always called it a “davenport”. Whatever she called it, I always saw it as a great place for an afternoon nap with Redford. Later when Doozie claimed “The House That Joe Built” as his home, if you hadn’t seen him in a while it was a safe bet that he was resting behind the “davenport”.
* After graduating from boot camp, it’s in that house that I proudly stood at attention flanked by two generations of grandmothers.
* Shortly after completing my service with Uncle Sam, Grandma and Grandpa used my newly acquired skill set and paid me to dig fighting holes on the north face of the basement. I made a little spending cash and patched up some leaky concrete while I was down there.
* At the turn of the century Joe’s Place was the sight of this generations’ first 5-year Fox Family reunion – reuniting long lost kin back in Warroad just like the days of old.
* Grandma’s kitchen table served as a gathering place for many Christmas meals. That table was the same spot where a dozen red roses waited for my soon to be wife after I proposed to her on that cold March day more than ten years ago.
* Downstairs Grandpa’s woodshop was where my father and I fashioned out a makeshift Muskie Bait box. And later, where we were joined by my brother to bore out holes in countless chunks of birch logs that would serve as candle-holders and center pieces at the wedding of my dreams.
* That house is where my own children crawled, walked and eventually ran circles. Chasing each other through the kitchen and around the den. That is of course until Poppa Joe surprised them with the disappearing pocket door.
* Every house in America deserves a resting place as comfortable as the beanbag in Grandma’s TV room and the view of Government Island from the front window is a great place to take in a lightening storm, watch the snow fall or even better, check on the ducks and geese and their seasonal broods.

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You see, my wife teased me a bit on Monday as we said our goodbyes to loved ones after another great holiday break. She sensed that I was uneasy and even a bit emotional as we packed for our journey home. Teasing is her loving way of acknowledging my feelings. Although we left with photos, dishes and shop lights to remind us of “The House That Joe Built”, this was in fact the last time that we’d have this great home as a gathering place for our family. My list is long. No doubt every member of our extended family, Biskups and Kirbys alike,  has equally as many memorable moments stemming from this great place. I guess it’s not so much as a “good-bye” as it is a “relocation of memories” because our snowbirds will be back. And although they might spend a few nights in new digs next summer, we’re all reluctantly ready to create new memories somewhere other than 501 Riverview Drive.

Love you Grandma Judy and Poppa Joe.
Thank you for everything.

Paul, Michele, Tyler, Emma, Logan, Gunner and Raider



Monday, December 17, 2012

TEN


TEN

TEN Things I love about my wife:

1.)   She is the most GIVING person you’ll ever meet.
If a friend is having a rough time, Michele knows when a small gift will be just the right “pick me up.” Our children will never need someone else to look out for their well being, Mom has got it covered. She relentlessly sacrifices so much for her friends and family and asks very little in return.

2.)   Michele is HARD WORKER.
She’s a professional woman and very good at her job. She’s often recognized within her organization as a leader and volunteers for the difficult assignments. Michele’s job doesn’t end when she leaves work, because she’s the engine that makes this family run. She’s the glue that holds it all together.

3.)   My wife is TALENTED.
She can juggle. She can dance. She is “artsy” and “crafty”. She can cook. She can bake. She’s got an eye for fashion and consulting me on the finer points is effortless. Shall I go on?

4.)   Michele is an ATHLETE.
She runs the dogs until they’re tired and then runs some more. She used to beat me in basketball although I’m sure I could take her now. She’s a volleyball legend of local lore and we have the plaques and trophies to prove it. In the backyard, she will pitch buckets of balls to Logan, toss volleyballs for Emma to hit and whip Tyler in a game of HORSE- all before suppertime.

5.)   She is BEAUTIFUL.
Inside and Out. A smile for the ages…Long blonde hair that I always dreamed of… Legs that go all the way up. My wife is a knockout. She’s way out of my league. As a buddy always reminds me, “Kirby, you’ve out-kicked your coverage!” (An intriguing football analogy to how HOT my wife is and how much other people notice!)

6.)   My wife is FUNNY.
Although it pains me to admit it, her evil brand of sarcasm and humor twisted together for her own enjoyment is kind of growing on me. She’s good. I see her humor in our kids and it makes me proud. Her giggle is contagious

7.)   Michele is TENDER.
The soothing touch of a mother’s hand cannot be duplicated. Michele’s calming presence and reassuring touch calms the mightiest storm. Her tenderness comes from a genuine heart that truly cares more about others. Sometimes it takes a lot to make Momma cry – other times, a chic flick with the obligatory Irish accent or a movie about puppies will do it. But no worries, her tears have magical healing powers.

8.)   She is STRONG.
Michele is smart. She is thoughtful. She is honest. She is trusting. She listens. Michele is wise. All of these traits come from valuable lessons learned during the ups and downs of life. She has experienced pain but never let it define her. She has taken some rough shots and made the best out of them. And when I experience those times of doubt, she believes in me.

9.)   Michele is the perfect MOM.
The list above (1-8) sets a pretty solid base as to the type of character that it takes to raise children. Every time I look at our three wonderful kids I’m reminded that they are gifts from God given to me by this perfect woman. Given all the talents of those dudes in the movie “Weird Science”, I could not have made a better model than the one I married. Making babies with this woman was the luckiest break I’ve ever been given and I am thankful for it every morning when I go upstairs to wake our sleeping children.
    
      10.) Michele is MY WIFE and has given me the TEN best years of my life.

She’s definitely a TEN!

Today is our TEN-YEAR Anniversary. Ten years ago, today, I said those two words that have changed my life forever. I know in the cloud of early romance we dreamed of vacations in New York City to mark our first major milestone. And I know that one day we will get there. Until then, I’m happy caught in this world of raising a family together. Schedules posted on the fridge to remind us to check the schedule. Work pulling us this way and that way, always demanding more and never accepting less. Beautiful children with little lives of their own for us to mold together. I know that sometimes we forget about “us” amidst the traffic of life but please know that you are now and will always be, my dream woman. I love you, Five. HAPPY ANNIVERSARY.

SIDE NOTE - Today? Today - meaning last Friday...December 14th.... good thing I am once again considered an author on our own family Blog. Thanks for bailing me our, Dear. I love ya to pieces.



Thursday, November 8, 2012


“Dad, you said it wasn't going to kick me much….”

Sometime last Spring Logan got it in his little head that he was ready for the big leagues. He had tagged along on enough hunts. Studied on the heels of his father long enough. Sat through endless hours of Outdoors Television asking all the right questions. Been the bird dog and done his time.  He now had a plan to be a gun-toting member of the hunting party.

Logan’s Plan = Convince Mom and then give Dad a sound financial plan.

As birthday cards rolled in for his big sister, Logan began to realize that his October birthday could be a real money making venture. Emma quickly topped a hundred dollars and spent it almost equally as fast on dolls and glitter. As the big sister reveled in the glow of recreational spending money, you could tell that Logan was realizing that if he played his cards right and bet on all of the right relatives, this was a done deal.

With his October birthday fast approaching and cards starting to trickle in, Logan used a routine family trip to Fleet Farm to size up some firearms. .20 gauge or .410?  Matched pair, single shot or pump? Logan was a 5 year old on a mission to be a 6 year old gun owner. As an early stipulation he carefully scrutinized each possibility by asking, “Can it shoot turkeys?”. Our hunting buddies brought over their pump action, Mossberg Bantam .20 gauge that 8 year old Nolan “just” grew into. Even with the shooting stick, it was too much of an elephant gun for Logan to shoulder. Although it was a sharp looking gun and outfitted to the gills for turkeys, the 13-inch stock proved to be too big a hill to climb for the Bear. But it did plant a seed.

On Logan’s own accord, he forfeited a traditional birthday party so that Mom and Dad would agree to fund the remaining balance of his purchase. Only in Kindergarten, Logan had obviously paid attention during Math and Economics lessons. With money in hand and a trip down the interstate, Pandora’s Box was opened.  Gander Mountain associates clamored to help the eager young customer. Even though he wasn’t tall enough to see over the counter, 3 brand new shotguns lay before him. A Bantam .410 was screaming dad’s name and begging to go grouse hunting. A beautiful synthetic stocked Super Bantam in .20 gauge topped the budget but it’s 12” stock caught Logan’s eye. The Matched Pair Rossi .410/.17 HMR never really had a chance. So we tracked Mom down in, of all places, the Shoe Section and asked for her approval.

The salesman turned on the charm and Michele was quickly swayed on a .20 gauge that could be used for turkeys, geese, grouse, and just about everything for years to come.  Believing it was the right choice, she gave the OK to buy the upgrade. I may kick myself one day but Logan and I knew that as beautiful and impressive as the Super Bantam was, now was not the time. Although the shorter stock allowed the half pint to correctly mount the gun, the .20 gauge was not going to be able to be carried on our next grouse hunt, let alone shot without a shooting stick anytime soon. Logan wanted a weapon that he could tote in the grouse woods and fire at will. With that, we politely parted ways with Gander Mountain and headed for Fleet Farm. Our 6 year old knew exactly what he wanted.
Firmly convinced and comfortable with his decision, Logan said, “Dad, if it’s still there I want to buy it.” Without much fanfare, he walked up to the Fleet Farm sales counter, spied the piece and laid his money down. Of course there was obligatory paperwork because gun laws nowadays just don’t allow handing over a “heavy iron” to a kindergartner. Mom and Logan picked out 2 boxes of ammo and thankfully, Dad passed the background check. With a smile that could light up any room and a spring in his step, Logan was the proud owner of a TUFFY, .410 gauge, single shot, Rossi shotgun. (Commonly know as a “Snake Charmer.”)
At 34.25 inches from tip to tip, this cute little bugger was no toy. Logan beamed with pride on our way home as he drank in the idea that this 3” chambered, .410 with a 18.5 inch barrel and black synthetic thumbhole stock with generous texturing and 4 round capacity in the buttstock was actually his! With his sound financial plan, Bear covered the entire cost and the 3 pound hunting machine that now rest in is lap was just waiting for their lifetime of memories to begin.
A few days of ownership and admiration passed before we were able to set aside some time and secure a place to test fire this beast. Coach Mettling offered up his parents’ farmyard just north of Pine City and one evening after football practice Logan and I ran out there. We carefully choose a tree with some nice back brush to tack a paper plate in. It was just before dusk and you could sense the excitement and anticipation of a moment that Logan had waited so patiently for. Small game vest and matching blaze orange hat gave the three-footer the appearance of a seasoned veteran. I could see that he was nervous because he got quiet. But you could also feel his calming nature take over as he sidled up to me to await final instructions.
As I was instructed by Momma, I asked Logan if he wanted to be the first one to shoot his new gun or if he wanted Dad to show him how loud it would be or how big of a kick it my give.
No.
Me.
I presented my boy with a live shotgun round and helped him with the breach. The matte blued finish of cold steel made the front sight brass bead easy to see as the sun reached the horizon. Placing a reassuring hand on his right shoulder, I knelt beside him and whispered that he’d be O.K. With his heart racing a million miles an hour, he struggled to pull the hammer back and then calmly switched the weapon to FIRE. As he had previously learned on his BB gun, the Bear pressed his cheek to the buttstock and acquired his target.
BAM!
The .410 barked and did a complete three hundred and sixty degree flip out of the child’s hands. The paper plate had been rocked! In one motion I scooped up the gun and my son and showered him with positive praise. “You did it! You hammered it! Great shot Logan! Wow! You’re awesome!”
Logan stood there stunned and Coach Mettling grinned. It was more than the little guy had expected. It was nothing like shooting Dad’s .22 Not even in the same ballpark as his “baby” old BB Gun. As I poured on the praise, I could see Logan’s eyes fill with tears. But he never once let one little tear escape the edges of those beautiful little eyes. He held it in. Perhaps without Coach Mettling there, the waterworks may have been on. But not tonight!
 Logan was now ready for Dad and Mr. Mettling to have a turn. He was ready to be the observer for a while but sure enough, “he got back on that horse for another go’round”.
Logan fired his .410 two more times that evening, both with some minor assistance from his old man. I was proud. Mettling was proud. But most of all, Logan was proud - too proud to cry but shaken, no doubt. The good news is, since that night, we have purchased a neoprene shock absorber that has taken the sting and some of the bite away from the Snake Charmer. Logan’s big sister and a couple of his friends have fired it. The bruises have faded and Logan has toted it on a half a dozen miles of grouse trails Although he doesn’t have his first confirmed kill with it yet, he did ask Dad to take a red squirrel with it.
For Logan, this gun was the right choice. He is one step closer to being a man… but he’d better concentrate on finishing kindergarten first.






Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Happy Birthday Logan!

 
Today is Logan's 6th birthday..
 
I will admit that Logan was an 'ohpps' baby.
 (then again so was I and I turned out pretty great)
But we just love this little guy like no other.........
He's our 'laid back' baby/child.
Just go with the flow.....
Happy to do whatever.....
Loving....caring......

Such a cute face!
 
Enjoys being around his big brother and sometimes his sister.

 
Not a big complainer or whiner...
 
 
LOVES to be outside hunting, fishing, playing or picking up dog poo...

Curious and attentive. 

Doesn't need the limelight....


Someday, this boy will have a million hunting/fishing stories....

Happy Birthday Logan! 
We love you!

Friday, September 21, 2012

Round up!

Well hello there!  How are you and where the heck have we been?
Thought it was time to do a photo update from this summer and catch everyone up to speed on where the Kirby Krew is at in life....
 
It was a busy and fun summer.....here are a few highlights...
 

Kirby and Logan scored tickets to an all star hockey game for Veterans. They got lots of autographs from some pretty cool players.  Kirby loves to tell the story of how they stood in line for over an hour and when the gal came out to cut the line off, she did so right after she looked at Logan's cute little face.
 


I think Kirby went there just to get Gigi Marvin's autograph.
The cool story behind that is she remembered Logan a few weeks later when we were up in Warroad for the 4th and he was at the penny drop game.  She was in charge and as soon as Logan walked up, she said..."Hey Logan..."  I told Logan he was a little too young to ask her out.... 

Warroad...we never have a dull moment there....
Logan jumping into LOTW.....notice the rope tied to him so we didn't lose him in the big lake.
 The kids even went tubing....Good job Papa Tom driving!

 We bought the kids some roller blades and all of us when for a few long skates by the lake. Don't they look tough?
 And yes, there was fishing.....
 And jumping off the wall.......
 
Then it was time for some camping on the North Shore.
Logan was busy building his log cabin.
 We spent a lot of time looking for tadpoles.
 And enjoyed the rocks and waterfalls and quietness of no TV-Cell Phones-Computers-Work.....


One of my favorite pictures! 
 
Of course in between all the fun trips we had tball and dry land hockey and swimming lessons and volleyball and backyard baseball....
 
 
 After 8 years of living in our house, we finally painted our bedroom....
 
Emma turned 8! How did that happen? We spent the day at the State Fair eating and looking. 
(oh and hi Raider.....)
 

First day of school!
Kindergarten for Logan.
Third grade for Emma.
Tenth grade for Tyler.
Eleventh year of teaching for Kirby....

 
And of course...Kirby is coaching football again-I started coaching the 8th grade volleyball team...
Kids are signed up for hockey this winter.
I'm trying to figure out how to teach our dogs to do some laundry and cook to help out.
 
And last weekend we all watched my Dad achieve his brown belt in Karate. He's 1 belt away from earning his black belt. We are super proud of him! 
It was crazy watching him throw punches and kicks......

 
 
And there you have it in a nut shell.......
 
Life is good.