Wednesday, December 23, 2020

Winds of Change.

 

Within all of us is the power of change. When motivated accordingly, the human spirit can accomplish great things. We can move mountains. “Change is good”, some say. Others fear change, author included. Maybe it’s not so much as fearing change but more so being comfortable in established routines. I like the way it’s always been.

And then a summer breeze changed things.

Aesop wrote a fable about the Great Oak tree that grew by the river. Proud of its size and strength, the tree boasted that it couldn’t be bothered. One day, a fierce wind howled and although it had always been stronger than the wind, this day the Great Oak tree was bested. The wind tore the tree from its roots and sent it crashing to the ground amongst a clump of reeds. The frail and slender reeds were unharmed by the anger of the wind. The Great Oak tree had faced the wind, head on and failed. He could not understand how the reeds survived. The reeds replied, “You were too stubborn, Great Oak. You stood and fought the wind, although it was stronger than you. We reeds knew that we were weak and frail, so we bent with the wind and let it pass harmlessly over our heads.” 

Sometime in the past few months, a summer breeze strengthened and blew across the Lost River swamp that some have called the Kirby State Forest. That stiff wind toppled a few tamarack trees that dot the swampy landscape. Unfortunately, one of those trees was tied to Poppa Tom’s tripod deer stand, and the whole kit and kaboodle is now a tangled mess of its former self. The picture came via text on October 20th. It seems the Winds of Change were blowing through the Kirby Deer Camp.

            About the same time that Logan and I were brainstorming creative ways to cram 500 pounds of deer hunters in to a 200-pound sack, Tyler joined in on the conversation. Logan’s big brother was on the brink of accepting a new job, which in turn, meant that he’d be severing ties with his current employer. Finding himself with a little extra time on his hands in the coming weeks, Tyler began to inquire about rejoining a hunting party that he’d been astray from for almost 10 years.

            This was fantastic news but presented some new problems. Ya see, swamp brush, encroaching neighbors and No Trespassing signs have enveloped the public lands that we’ve hunted for close to 30 years. With the passing of every rifle season, it seems as if we’re getting choked out. There are only a few accessible stands and even fewer friendly ways in and out of our little piece of tax forfeited paradise. If we added Tyler to the hunting party northwest of Warroad, we’d be trying to place 5 hunters along the Demars trail that has just 3 dilapidated stands to offer. The math wasn’t working, and Grandpa Tom was about to bow out when his brother offered a solution.

            Move Kamp.

            Uncle Tim lives in a slick little, Father-In-Law, bachelor pad just a stone’s throw from his grandkids. Even in the age of CORONA, he was sure that he could convince Aaron to open his home and hunting grounds.  Together, they would work on Arica. Not being one to self-invite, I called my cousin to test the waters. Aaron excitedly rattled off the location of enough deer stands to host a bigger hunting party and eagerly offered up sleeping quarters on the floor of his dad’s new place or in the cramped confines of the fish house parked in his driveway. That fish house parked in his driveway turned out to be a brand new 29-foot American Freedom Ice Castle with room to sleep seven. When Logan heard the news that Deer Kamp was relocated to an Ice Castle, he was all in. Rogue, straight-line winds toppled my dad’s deer stand and limited the capacity on our traditional hunting grounds along the Canadian border, but those same winds gave us an opportunity to bring the family back to hunt together again, albeit in a new location.

            So, it was set. Deer Kamp 2020 would be at the corner of Spencer and Buzzle Roads, just west of Highway 89 near Bemidji.                             

Maybe change is good.

            Distance Learning has come with plenty pros and cons. Obviously, I’d rather have my children in school and as a teacher, I’d rather be building relationships with face to face, student interactions in the classroom. With kids on the opposite end of an internet connection, I have diligently created and delivered my content videos and navigated the new world of Schoology. Logan and Emma have adjusted to new learning styles as well. Emma is knocking out college level classes like a champ and Logan is balancing a flexible school schedule with as much hunting as he can muster. What this all really means is that, thanks to Distance Learning, we were able to point the truck north and head for Bemidji much earlier on Friday afternoon than we had previously anticipated.

            With enough food, ammo and supplies to take over a small country, Tyler, Logan and I pulled into Aaron’s drive about 4 hours later.  It was just after sunset and a pleasant surprise to see Poppa Tom wander over from Tim’s place, as I wasn’t expecting him until the next day. Hugs and handshakes flew as the innkeeper showed us his new digs. The 8-hole ice house wouldn’t produce any walleyes that weekend but it was more than ample room for the boys and I to stretch out and comfortably have a place to call our own. We laid out sleeping bags to claim our bunks. Filled the refrigerator with beer and sandwich meat. We staged our hunting gear in the adjacent garage for our early morning rendezvous and then headed in the big house for supper and one of the best burgers on record.

            Crispy bacon, lightly toasted buns, delicately melted cheeses – Pepper Jack for some, American for me, and the juiciest hamburger patties you can imagine… it was a perfect complement to the family fellowship surrounding Aaron’s handcrafted dining room table. Dinner was chased down with a few beers and plenty of laughter. When things got serious and someone questioned our morning assignments, I produced black and white, aerial photos for our host to mark up with stand locations. Aaron dotted the maps and passed them around to those of us that would be walking into unfamiliar woods in 10 short hours. He gave a few specifics about the quality and type of stand at each dot. We listened patiently while our outfitter shared stories of solo deer hunts long gone. With a poker face, Tim played his cards close to his chest and instructed us to pick our spots. Knowing Aaron’s tendency to hang small platform stands scratching the heavens, I was most comfortable putting each of my boys in ladder stands. Tyler choose the double to the west, leaving Logan with the single across the gravel pit to the east. Aaron suggested that he could drop each one of us off with his wheeler, thus putting him to the east with Logan and me to the south in a small portable. Uncle Tim was left with the last pick but the cushiest digs, in a box stand that he could walk to from his condo. Poppa Tom elected to sit this season out and offered up words of encouragement and a sharp knife when needed. Aaron broke out the trail camera pictures to get the blood flowing and more family fellowship followed under the watchful eyes of a giant elk in the trophy room. The stories eventually gave way as we retired to our own quiet places to scour social media and rest up for sunrise.

            The unseasonably mild weather and the temperature controls of the Ice Castle afforded me the comfort of sleeping in basketball shorts atop the full-sized bed I previously claimed as Head of Household. Tyler and Logan squeezed into the bunks at the other end of the “fish house” and let the glowing lights of their cell phones lull them to sleep, their alarms set for 5:30 am. A few hours later, as is often the case, I was awake in eager anticipation waiting on the boys’ alarms to sound. Alarms that signal the official start of the most festive of days – Deer Opener. Not as bright eyed and bushy tailed but equally excited, the boys soon joined me. We wolfed down a few chocolate chip muffins and some may have whizzed in the yard. Regardless, the hunting party assembled in the garage to gear up in blaze orange and break out the heavy irons.

            Tim’s stand was a leisurely walk from his front porch, so he was left to his own timeline. Our departure time was set for 6:15 and right on schedule, the four of us mounted Aaron’s Honda. 4 Cowboys on 1 Pony is always a thing of beauty. With Aaron at the helm and each of the boys sitting behind him atop a wheel well, unloaded guns were pointed skyward. I mounted the front rack and clicked on my headlamp for added piece of mind as we motored off into the obscure darkness.

After we dropped Tyler off at his morning post, I moved to the left side wheel-well, alongside Logan. The flat, farmland trail that we had just crossed was no problem for the heavily loaded 4-wheeler but now we were on the rolling trails of the Beltrami County Highway Department land. On a shallow incline, the Honda groaned, begging for a lower gear. Aaron obliged and I almost went ass over teakettle off the back. Luckily, the guide grabbed my legs to keep me onboard. I think he felt obligated because I was holding both of our rifles. My youngest son, however, offered no support but laughed at the sight of his old man struggling to stay upright in the moon lit morning ride. In no time, we parked along side the gravel pit and scurried off to our hand-picked hunting stands.

Logan and Aaron escorted me to the south cut but I rambled down the fence line alone, carefully searching for my assigned post. It was as I imagined, a small discreet portable, staged high in a cluster of three equally small red oaks. I took a deep breath and headed straight up. The climbing sticks held. I eased into the Lone Wolf stand and slid a live round in the .30-06 with just a few minutes to spare before legal shooting light. Those few extra minutes afforded me a moment to familiarize myself with the territory and to say a prayer of thankfulness not just because I safely reached the stand but because our family was back together in the woods again.

My pre-dawn, deer stand prayers tend to be long, like the written words here. I usually start with giving thanks for my loving wife and the health and happiness of her and the kids. I figure that takes a good fifteen minutes or more. From there I move to praise for extended family and friends and ask for their safety and the watchful eye of the Lord over them all while I know many are crawling into their stands across our far-reaching state. Another five to ten minutes typically pass in prayer with very little mention of giant deer and only a little outright begging. I do what I can to stay alert in the darkened treetops and prayer is what gets me through. And like every opener that has come before – my prayers are interrupted by that FIRST shot of the morning. This time was no different.

Well, I take that back. Things were different. We were not in the swamps and sloughs that we’d become accustomed to. The family hunting party had gathered 120 miles or so south of the Lost River in the open farmland and gentle rolling hardwoods or Aaron’s little slice of Heaven. The first shots fired abruptly ended my prayer and signaled that business was open and by the sounds of the ringing in the hills, business was good. After losing track of just how many shots were fired, Tyler and Logan later surmised that there wouldn’t be a buck left standing in the county. Shots came from every direction possible but none that were taken by our kin. At one point, Tyler text me that it sounded like the 4th of July. The warm weather made it feel like the summer holiday too. That warmth kept us in the stand longer than usual.

For me, the morning was eventful. At about 9 o’clock, I had three does scoot from west to east. I practiced my aim as each one carefully looked behind with no buck in follow. An hour or so later, another small deer infiltrated my perimeter and played around within bow range for a while. I tried to snap a picture as it walked off in Tyler’s direction. And at about 10:45 a six-point buck slipped in with a Hall Pass. I took video to later share on Social Media to prove that I had him within 20 yards and to also prove that letting little dudes walk, produces bigger dudes next season. I watched the young buck leap the fence and knew if he walked within gunshot range of Tyler, that he’d be eating lead for lunch. The deer did not and crossed back over the fence and disappeared safely to the south. Logan’s morning report was filled with gobbling turkeys. Tyler talked about kissing chickadees. Aaron and Tim were also blanked. At about 11:00, we retreated to the house for sloppy joes.

The evening hunt produced more close encounters with the turkeys. Logan got face time with a doe and Tyler had an unfortunate mishap with the cap of his scent bottle. On the darkened drive out, the 4 cowboys on 1 pony spotted a couple of deer in the field that sparked some interest in a backup plan from my boys. After grilled pork chops, a killer pasta salad and a few suds for dinner, we rolled some dice and smack talked amongst family. Although the oldest brother swore that his fate was doomed by this decision, Tyler and Logan agreed to switch stands the next morning. Day 1 ended peacefully, without a shot fired from the Kirby Krew.

Day 2 of our hunt started out with much less fanfare and far fewer shots in the distance. The quiet and warm peacefulness of the woods comforted and convinced us all that we could handle more than three hours afield. Restlessness hit the youngest of the tribe first. After his morning nap was interrupted by a roughed grouse, Logan text me trying to arrange a shotgun delivery from Poppa Tom. Back at the ranch, Grandpa agreed to a little adventure. At about 9:30, he mustered up a twenty gauge and some blaze orange and hoofed it out to meet up with his grandson. By then the grouse was gone so the two meandered closer to the gravel pit to stand overwatch from the highest ridge. Shortly thereafter, Tyler began texting his thoughts on pulling the plug on our morning hunt. He suggested that an early lunch today would help us return to the stands earlier in the afternoon than we did yesterday. Without having seen any deer on Day 2, I agreed and said we could start rounding everyone up at 10:45.

 With an extraction plan in place, I started to pack my gear for the descent from the treetops of the trio of red oaks. Through smoke signals or telepathy or some other unexplainable way of communicating, Aaron reminded me of my 5th General Order. “To Quit My Post Only When Properly Relieved.”  By divine intervention, I decided to stand the full watch and choose not to prematurely leave the Lone Wolf. Thank the Good Lord that I stayed.

Minutes before extraction, a shooter buck scurried in from the east, with a fixed purpose to his gait. I readied my rifle and searched for his profile through the timbers. The buck weaved in and out of the scope reticle so fast that my heart rate never had a chance to catch up. He approached me head on and suddenly took a slight turn towards the northwest ridge. I quickly decided that might be my only chance as I hastily readjusted and waited for him to clear the next opening in the forest. When he did, I let out a guttural bleat in order to get him to stop. He didn’t. The buck slid through the woods, fast approaching a safe escape into the saplings.  The next time that my crosshairs caught up with the deer, I lit off my 30-.06 and listened to it echo throughout the back country of Beltrami County. It was 10:42 a.m.

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            The following five hours were filled with elation, anticipation, and excitement as the blood trail led us into the thicket. Eventually, the jovial spirit of our tracking team changed to doubt, fear and exhaustion while the sun warmed the sticks, causing many of us to shed no longer necessary layers of clothes. After circling back on the last known spot of clotted blood for a third time, we decided to walk blindly into the bush – standing 5 abreast. That effort proved to be just as fruitless as the previous 3 hours when Tim offered to rejoin us on the trail. A renewed sense of optimism helped refuel our desire to find the next speck of blood and eventually a fallen deer. Having long since ran out of water and with lunch on everyone’s mind, our spirits wavered from confident to confused just as many times as we picked up and repeatedly dropped the same blood trail. Logan kept score of time spent and miles traveled with the online tracker built into his phone. Tyler started to see the importance of a marked trail with me leaving bits of toilet paper hanging from branch to branch. Somewhere, we lost Poppa Tom back towards the 4wheeler and eventually we ran in to the neighbors as they returned to their stand for an afternoon hunt. It was that neighbor that led us to the southwest corner of the property and substantial amount of blood leading into a small swamp. The Krew decided to back out for a bit and reconvene our efforts after some nourishments back at camp. Hopefully the break would give the wounded deer time expire and would give Aaron a chance to secure permission to continue our search on adjacent property as needed. I hung my head in shame that it was my hurried and poorly placed shot that had caused this, hours long, mystery to consume us.

            The boys and I scarfed down sandwiches and rested our aching feet in the Ice Castle. Poppa Tom emerged from the woods at some point and moseyed over to say his goodbyes. Aaron was on the phone with landowners and headed down the road seeking permission throughout the neighborhood. When he knocked on one neighbor’s door, he was cordially invited in while she finished up her shower. The friendly invite was a case of mistaken identity, but she did oblige on our request for land access. On a whim, Aaron pulled over in the vicinity of the southwest swamp and found a bloodbath splattered across the road. He knew then that the buck was not far off and hurried home to reassemble the troops. In the meantime, half of the tracking team was ready for reassignment.  

            Exhausted of their best tracking efforts, Tyler and Logan conjured up an evening plan to sit together in the ground blind across Aaron’s field. Without his whole heart in it this year, my father pointed his Jeep north. Tim, Aaron and I loaded the pickup and like the hero in a country western, Uncle Tim quipped, “Ready to go get your deer?” As long as the last five hours had been, the next five minutes passed in a rush. The significant blood trail crossed the road and painted a path into Ms. Garrigan’s property. With firearms at the ready, Aaron and I dispersed with Tim in tow. Suddenly the buck made one last valiant attempt to get to his feet and escape out the back door once more. He was met with a volley of rifle fire and took his last courageous breaths at 3:45 pm. Our diligent search was over.

My mid-morning rushed shot entered his front left side and exited through the opposite shoulder. It had not connected with any vitals, but the broken leg coupled with heavy blood loss would have eventually resulted in his demise but possibly without our recovery. Through the relentless tracking efforts of my family, we learned another painstaking lesson in perseverance and proper shot placement. Via text, the boys asked to come down. As they scampered down the road, we called my dad and insisted that he reverse course and join us for some family pictures and fellowship with the 10 point Buck that had truly been a team effort.

            Following an invite to run up to her favorite local establishment to buy my tracking party that case of beer I promised, Arica was already buckled in the truck when Aaron came running out on to the porch asking us if we heard the shot. We had not but apparently, Logan and/or Tyler had shot from the ground blind and sent deer scurrying for the tree line. I grabbed the binoculars and scoured the edge of the woods for a sign. Another text message announced that both had shot, and they were confident that at least one deer had fallen. I wrestled with the thought of my boys needing my assistance but was reminded by Arica that they had abandoned me just over an hour earlier when the biology lesson of a gut pile was eminent. If in fact a deer was down, they could figure it out on their own. We went to the bar.

            In the short time it took to run up to the place formerly known as Dale’s, the sun had faded, and darkness taken over. In the distance you could see headlights panning from left to right. The boys were on another blood trail. Aaron grabbed a high-powered lantern, his four-wheeler and a couple of kids. I hoofed it across the field on my own, eager to hear the next unraveling mystery.

At sunset, a doe and a yearling entered the field. Sitting side by side in the ground blind, Tyler and Logan counted down from three and like practiced members of the silent drill team, simultaneously fired two shots. It was evident that the deer Logan aimed at was mortally wounded. They watched it expire just over the fence. “Didn’t go 20” was the text. Officially it will be recorded as an antlerless deer, its buttons argued otherwise. Tyler was certain that he had cleanly missed. Imagine their surprise when a second trail of blood was discovered. By the time that the rest of the gang had joined them, Tyler was beginning to understand that he may have connected on a successful shot as well. Glowing curtains of red covered the twisted alders and scrub brush. All the signs of a double lung shot amped up the intensity of the search. When the trail made a hard-clockwise turn, Tyler thought we had lost it and you could hear doubt creep into his voice again. About that time, I peeled back from the rest of the group and widened my focus and not 10 yards from us lay the third deer of the day, a beautiful doe. My two sons and I had successfully taken a deer on the same day, albeit not without a little drama along the way.

As always, pictures were next. Luckily, we had a 9-year-old apprentice photographer along to offer professional lighting suggestions to balance the energy and joyfulness casting a glow in the darkened woods. Much work followed. Father-son lessons on field dressing. A couple of phone calls and text messages to Mom and grandfathers to the north and to the south. The misty fog turned to a cold drizzle while the last deer was lifted on to the wheeler. The kids and Aaron went on ahead with a load full of venison. Oblivious to the developing weather, Tyler, Logan and I laughed our way across the field, pausing a few times to recount, retell and replay it all over again. That was the moment I lived for.

For a second or maybe a third time, Arica reheated our dinner, Emma’s goulash paired perfectly with a couple of loaves of French bread. We comfortably shared another meal in the warmth of the house, while outside, the drizzle turned to rain and sleet pelted the dining room windows. With full stomachs, there was more work to be done. Deer to be hung and skinned. Gear to be cleaned and stowed. As the night wore on, the northwest wind picked up and announced a change.

Aesop’s Great Oak was too stubborn and fought the changing winds. This night uncomfortable, biting, wind brought with it a drop to frigid temperatures. Aaron and Tim would not be hunting on Monday morning as both were relegated to hammering away at another day’s work. With three filled tags, my boys and I knew that the stinging winds of change were not to be fought. We could sleep in and like Aesop’s Reeds – let the cold winds of change pass harmlessly over our heads.

                               

           

            

Wednesday, October 7, 2020

A love without end, Amen

 

I am guilty of posting too many pictures of Logan and I out fishing and hunting. The Social Media masses must think that I favor one of my kids over the others. I don't. This stinkin' girl right here has got me wrapped around her finger.

Our little Nemo recently needed some minor medical attention that required some local anesthetics. Although she's one tough Defenceman on the ice, she's never really been a fan of needles. She's got the grit and fortitude to go into the corners with a big heart and a big bag of knuckles but doesn't want to face the pain of those scary needles without her Daddy there with her. 

She nearly pierced the skin as we held hands last week during her doctor's appointment. A week and two pounds of antibiotics later and all is well. She's on the mend. 

And then just today she asked Good Ol' Dad to accompany her to the rink tonight. Tonight she's been asked to help out with our Learn to Skate kids. Pine City's littlest of future hockey players will take to the ice to try something new and completely foreign to them. With knife blades tied to their little feet, most won't want to be out of the reach of their doting parents. There will be a lot of tears and plenty of smiles. The coaching staff will work wonders and they asked some older kids to help....

My little Nemo really wanted Dad to come along too....

And so, with a Big Buck in sight... Logan will be Solo bow hunting the Preserve tonight. Dad won't be in a tree stand doing the same. I'll be holding my little girl's hand up at the rink.

It's an awesome feeling to know that she still needs her daddy.

Tuesday, September 29, 2020

Meritorious Promotion...

 "Lance Corporal Kirby, what is the Max Effective Range of your M16?"

 - The Max Effective Range of my M16A2 service rifle is 550 meters at a Point Target and 800 meters at an Area Target, Sir.


Back in the bootbrush days, I could rattle off weaponry knowledge like it was nobody's business but mine. Indoctrinated in to the educational ways of Uncle Sam's Motorcyle Club - I was drinking the KoolAid and well versed on the knowledge necessary to impress the high brass. I knew the Max Effective Range of a number of really cool weapons of mass destruction. 

Since then, I've been able to avoid weekly haircuts and chilled out a bit. I shoot a shotgun now and again; have my deer rifle sighted in and even pull the trigger on a few pistols from time to time. I am familiar with their effectiveness and my capabilities. What I'm struggling with now is....

the Max Effective RANGE of my Teaching Ability.

Year 20 - yep, been doing this thing for 20 years already. It blows my mind. I still feel like the new guy in town but my name is listed on the front page of the seniority list and creeping closer and closer to the top with each retirement of those lucky bastards ahead of me. Yet, even with all this experience, nothing could have prepared me for Distance Learning. 

The gaps in education expose weakness. I serve on the frontlines in a community with poverty gaps that create inequalities in access to technology. Our district has made promises to provide devices and internet access to everyone and have fallen short of that promise. Yet the mandate remains unchanged.

The Good Marine in me just wants to follow orders and do what the High Brass says. In my heart I struggle with the morality of marking someone "absent" or counting school work against them knowing that if they were able to sit in my classroom, they'd be doing the work. It's the DISTANCE in Distance Learning that is the "Windage Compensation" that I can't adjust for. 

We're trying. We all are. We are reaching out to families. I'm wearing out my sneakers, marching from colleague to colleague to listen to their frustrations and vent mine. 

I'm regularly questioning the effectiveness of my delivery...just go away COVID and give me back my classroom!

I want to do a good job...I really do. 



Tuesday, September 22, 2020

Put it in perspective...


How was your first day of school, honey?

How do you feel about Distance Learning, Kirby?

Hybrid? Are we talking fishing, fuel efficient vehicles or some cockamamie idea that's going to change the face of education?

What COVID has taught me is that there are No Right Answers... get fixated that your day is going to go one way and you'll be justly slapped in the face and put in your place at some point. The rules of COVID are that there are no rules... things will arbitrarily pop in and out of our lives. New Lexicon,  new platforms, new delivery-  with higher expectations - in the middle of a Pandemic.

I feel like Brian Robeson of "Hatchet" fame... he unexpectedly had to learn how to fly the plane at 2,000 feet when his pilot kicked the bucket. Sure, the plane flew on for a while with a few dips and dives but Brian soon got the hang of it and was able to navigate his "new normal".

But the inevitable crept in - the plane would eventually run out of gas and he would need to become a Master of amphibious landings with no formal training. 

That's how I feel...I'm on a course that I'm unfamiliar with... I'm flying the plane but I'm not adequately prepared to be at the helm... for the meantime, things are managable but on the horizon is the inevitable... without some serious help and/or intervention from the man upstairs, we might be going down in a blaze of glory.

Or maybe I'm just having a bad day...

Things could be worse... anything is possible. 

Tuesday, July 21, 2020

OL - 5031 SEL: Strengthening Hearts and Minds

I'm knocking out a few online graduate level classes this summer. And when I say "this summer", I mean I'm cramming them in at the last moment before thier due date. Trying to accumulate enough credits to earn a salary advancement - seems a Catch 22 - pay now for expensive classes so that you can slowly recoup the costs in bi-weekly partial payments...but it's all good. I thought I'd share my "Reflection Paper" at the end of Module #3.... enjoy. - K


     My mentors in teaching always said, “Stick around education long enough and the pendulum will eventually swing”. We’ve been through portfolios, discovery learning, Daily 5, higher order thinking, Common Core, cooperative learning, Bloom’s Taxonomy, scaffolding, Six Traits and countless other buzzwords that were going to change the face of education. One to one technology initiatives have come and gone in the district in which I teach. At one point our school taught with homogenous grouped instruction. Say those words today and you’ll be reprimanded quicker than a New York minute. Entering my twentieth year of teaching, I have watched the proverbial pendulum swing more than once. Very little of the educational jargon has stuck or produced a long-term effect. Administrators change. Politicians change and policies change.  What I have learned is that at the very basis of education is the ART of Teaching. Teaching is an Art. I have a Bachelor of ARTS degree in Elementary Education. And the thing that makes the “art of teaching” so special is educators’ ability to build and maintain relationships that connect students and drive them to be the best versions of themselves. 

A few years ago I was having a conversation with an administrator that was just passing through on his road trip of a career. This fella was my age and had spent less than five years as a teacher in an actual classroom. We were discussing a 4th grade student that had become a major behavior concern and had given both of us a run for our money. Thinking I
had a captive and supportive audience, I let on to my principal that in my career I had learned that teaching students how to add and subtract fractions was less important than finding a way to connect with them and build relationships that foster a child’s desire to learn and do their very best. Now maybe I wasn’t as eloquent when I said it but that’s how I remember the intent of the conversation. Imagine my surprise later in the year while sitting in on a performance review with said administrator when he brought up that same conversation and used it as a strike against me and perhaps a reason for lower scores from my Math students. 

Remembering back to that year as one of the more challenging classes in my career, I contest that those scores reflected a class size over thirty students. The scores were a reflection of multiple new students moving into the district, specifically into our grade, thus changing the social dynamic of an otherwise peaceful classroom. The new students came from foster care, broken homes, and other childhood traumas that led them to acting out and attention seeking behavior that regularly disrupted the day to day intentions of our lessons. One of those students, not yet 10 years old, brought a knife to school and threatened a younger child on the bus. That confrontation is actually what led to the initial conversation that the principal and I had months earlier when I spoke of the need to “Build Relationships”.

That principal has since moved on, lasting three short years in our community. I’m still here, having served fifteen years as a 6th grade teacher and currently still teaching 4th graders. And I still hold fast to my personal belief that establishing trust and a shared respect between teachers and students is far more important and productive that focusing solely on the content areas and dumping of information on children. By teaching children that they are a valued person with important input that is necessary for the success of our class, I’ve learned to create workers that want to perform to their highest capabilities in order to receive that positive feedback and lifelong connection.

Now that we have an administration and school board that supports the direct instruction of Social Emotional Skills, it is a breath of fresh air and a great relief to know that dedicated time will be allotted and even expected to address the emotional needs of all of our students. The long term effect will be healthier and happier students, less negative behavior incidents and ideally, increased academic performance. Stick around long enough to see your former students mature into productive members of the community in which you live and you will be able to reflect on the real importance of an educational journey. Did it matter that I taught you what a declarative sentence was when you were 11 years old? Was it mandatory that you mastered the identification process of metamorphic rocks before you had ever reached the legal age to drive? Was learning about Ancient Mesopotamia more or less important than learning how to regulate our own emotions? Those content areas are a vehicle for establishing expectations, teaching responsibility and giving/earning trust. 

In completing this course I have learned that the pendulum is swinging in a direction that I can fully understand and support. States and local districts are recognizing the absolute need to teach self awareness, self management, social awareness, relationship skills and responsible decision making. Using the five Social and Emotional Competencies and explicitly teaching free-standing lessons to those points, will drive us to the desired outcomes of positive social behavior, fewer conduct issues, less emotional distress and lastly, improved academic performance. Teaching these skills throughout elementary school and into high school will produce adults that reflect positively on their educational journey. I have longed for the days when an equal amount of effort and resources are dedicated to teaching social skills as have been put on the academic core areas. It proves what professionals in the ART of education have known all along, we must teach the whole child. We have to reach them where they are and meet certain, basic social needs before we can teach other content. The pendulum is swinging and I think this time, it’s going to stick. 

Thursday, May 28, 2020

Field of Dreams - not the movie but the Daycare.

In the daycare days of my children's upbringing, Lisa played a real important role in their young lives. We chose Lisa's daycare partly because her son, Isaiah, was in my 6th grade class at the time and partly because she had such a great location right on the edge of town - close enough to be convenient to the school and country enough to be a little bit country.

In full disclosure, a couple of reviews of Lisa's place weren't that flattering. A friend whose kids USED to go there, told us, "The kids are always outside!" - "The kids come home a mess every day!" She told us these things with such disdain that she couldn't believe we would subject our own kids to this torture. She was sure that we'd pull our kids and have them in some finishing school by week's end.

Thankfully her review was spot on and we're more so, grateful that we stuck it out all them years and developed such a great relationship with Lisa and her family at the "Field of Dreams" daycare. Our naysayer friend is kind of a Negative Nelly about a lot of things but what she viewed as unwelcome and unpleasant outcomes of being at Lisa's, we actually valued as productive and creative. Debbie Downer's assessment was correct. Our kids were outside constantly. Constantly playing ball. Constantly swinging and making up games. Constantly supervised and loved.

She was right. The kids came home a mess every day! A mess from playing in the sand or going on an adventure to Rab's farm to help pick apples and sticks. The kids were messy from arts and crafts time and exploring and creating and building. Often, they were tired and ready for bed but excited to go back to Lisa's the next day.

Fast forward a bunch of years to the present. Logan just passed 7th grade and thankfully doesn't need full time daycare anymore. We bought him a fishing pole. Emma, on the other hand, has returned to the "Field of Dreams Daycare", except now she's on the payroll. Emma is Lisa's helper. There to play with the older kids, affording Lisa time to tend to the infants or another cup of coffee. Emma helps with the sunscreen and sets the ground rules for the next game of tag or soccer. Emma helps with the meals and the diapers. She earns her keep by doing what the boss asks of her. And the kids love her there.

I picked up her up from work today and asked how things went. "Fine.", she replied.
"We crossed the ditch in to that field and ran in the fluffy dandelion things. Then we went to the back of the bean field and played for a while and jumped a couple of mallards out of the creek. It was a fun day."

I could just picture the kidlet crew at Field of Dreams daycare marching with Emma through the field of dandelion blowballs, dispersing the seeds in to the wind with laughter and smiles. I imagined that most of the youngsters trusted her navigation skills over the creek and back through the beanfields that she herself grew up around. I hoped that the parents picking up their loved ones for the day would appreciate that Emma and Lisa were sending the littles home with some sand in their ears and maybe some dirt on their toes not out of neglect but out of love.

The first thing Emma did after getting home from work and feeding her dog was to go to the tub to wash her feet.

I'd say that it was another succesful day at the "Field of Dreams".

UI

UI?

It's a simple 2 letter acronym. Rolls off the tounge fairly easy. I always think I'm saying it wrong because I know how to spell the Main word.
It doesn't even sound fun.

But I've got it.

Or am in the process and "pending determination" as they say in the Biz.

Yep - the Rush City Pool is officially closed for the summer. Darn COVID took my Cabana Boy status and washed it down the main drain. No swimming lessons to schedule and tend to. No ice cream treats and nachos to order and peddle to clientele. The Pool is closed. No more trips up and down the Big Slide. No regualr cat and mouse games in the lockerooms to close locker doors and shut off showers. No sunscreen and flipflop expenses associated with the dangers of being an Aquatic Facility Operator.

Whatever am I going to do?

No $ -

YET. I've applied for Unemployment for the first time in my life. Also for the first time in my life, I do not have gainful employment staring me down for the summer months. People always toss that out there in the Great Debate of teachers salaries and the benefits of earning the degree and title. "You've got your summers off!"

Um yeah, Never Have I Ever....

Well, until now. See, the plan is....apply for and see if Uncle Sam or Donald will approve of paying me to stay home. I've applied for a VA grant intended to soften the blow for Veteran's that have their income affected by COVID-19. I think i can check both of thsoe boxes. IF and that's a big "if" I can qualify and the money comes in, I will chafufeur the kids around to their respective commitments. I'll walk and bike away some of this Winter Weight (Winter on 2017 to be honest!) - I'll fish and travel as much as the gas tank and Michele will let me. I'll do what I can around the house and around the neighborhood to best be out of Michele's hair as she continues to Bring Home the Bacon.

If NOT - then it's back to the workforce I go...is 45 y/o too old to be applying for entry level physical labor jobs? Wash some dishes? Mow some lawns? Babysit? Lay concrete? I don't have the slightest clue....

But the bills won't stop coming. So hopefully a secision is on the horizon.

Today I cleaned up my classroom and checked out for the school year. 2019-2020 is in the rearview mirror....who know's what's ahead?